Jump offs pay attention

Luda and Eudoxie

We have all been there thinking we are that special person in some guys life. Then find out that we weren’t where we thought we were in the relationship. I know that I have had my heart broken in the past and boy it wasn’t fun. Or how about finding out that the guy is now boo’d up or wifed up with someone else! Dang that doesn’t feel good at all!

I was admiring Ludacris last night as he brought his girlfriend on the red carpet at his event. I watched closely how he whispered to his publicist what to tell the media waiting. The publicist then announced to the media that Eudoxie was Luda’s girlfriend. I was thinking to myself wow, now that is a gentleman. I don’t know if anyone else felt the same way I did but that must have been a good feeling for her. I would have felt like a princess, for a guy to let the world know, I’m special in his life.

More women, like these so called, jump offs need to pay attention to how it’s really done. Ludacris did it with so much class and style for this female. Even if they never marry or settle down, it was all in his presentation!  We as women, need to stop trying to do sneaky lil things to get a guys attention. We need to stop babying these guys,paying for everything for their attention etc and let men be real men. Let a man approach you ladies.

If a guy is interested in you, he will make the first move. Ladies please stop chasing these men and doing crazy things to get their attention. I can say from listening to other men talk, when you try too hard, they just will use you till the real one he wants comes along. In due time, you will find your soul mate,trust me.

I’m only telling you ladies this because I’ve been there.I was not always a wife and mom. I was a little fast tail too but learned quickly after getting my feelings hurt too. Just sit back and relax, your prince charming will come along sooner than you think! Mine did..smile!

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